I. The Comfort of Being Called Gifted
In this part of The Writer’s Beginning series, I hope a few more of your doubts have settled — and maybe, just maybe, you’ve begun drafting your first chapter.
Here’s the third installment.
I grew up an academic overachiever. I could read, write, and count before I reached first grade. Most subjects in school felt easy to grasp.
For years, I stepped comfortably into the role of being at the top of my class. It felt validating.
At the time, I believed something simple:
If I kept the midnight oil burning.
If I submitted my requirements on time.
If I fully engaged in class discussions.
If I aced my exams.
If I remained disciplined.
I would stay on top.
During commencement exercises, when I walked across the stage to receive awards — and during graduation, when my name was announced and I delivered my valedictory speech — I was told:
“You’re smart. You’re a gifted child.”
And for years, I believed it.
Yes. I am gifted.
But college woke me up — not gently, but abruptly.
I didn’t perform the way I expected myself to.
There were unmet expectations that lingered long after graduation.
There were things I wish I had done differently. Habits I should have corrected earlier.
Gone was the overachiever child.
And slowly, I realized something uncomfortable:
Maybe I wasn’t gifted.
The first-place medals from elementary to high school?
They didn’t come from magic.
They came from effort.
And writing is no different.
I often hear writers say, “I’m just not naturally talented.” That phrase haunted me for years.
But after reflecting on my own journey—starting from my first short story at fourteen —I realized that skill is less about innate ability and more about the willingness to persist, practice, and push through the uncomfortable middle of a draft.
The truth is, waiting until you “feel ready” doesn’t make talent appear—it only delays growth. Every writer, regardless of background, develops craft through repeated effort, not magical aptitude.
We romanticize “gifted” writers — as if they appear once in a century. As if genius descends upon them fully formed.
But the writers we place on pedestals? They questioned themselves too.
Their so-called giftedness did not arrive effortlessly.
It came after crumpled drafts. After rejected submissions. After staring at blank pages that refused to cooperate.
They did not emerge extraordinary.
They became extraordinary.
II. Talent or the Result of Practice?
Talent is a seductive myth. It convinces us that some people are born to write and others aren’t. But if you look at your own progress—from the first scribbled diaries in elementary school to later drafts—you see a pattern:
- You improve by showing up consistently.
- You grow when you experiment, fail, and try again.
- You sharpen technique when you study, revise, and reflect.
Even my most awkward early pieces led to something meaningful because I allowed myself to continue despite imperfection—a lesson that ties directly to Part 2: Writing Before You Feel Ready.
Behind every “talented” writer is practice.
Before a bestseller is printed, it undergoes months — sometimes years — of rewriting, reediting, restructuring, and revising again.
Even authors who can now finish manuscripts quickly didn’t begin that way. That fluency was earned.
Practice makes perfect, they say.
And perhaps that isn’t far from the truth.
I loved reading before I ever fell in love with writing.
I’ve read over a hundred Filipino pocketbooks and countless Wattpad stories before finishing my first manuscript, I’ll Stay.
While reading, I noticed things.
Some books I didn’t finish. The writing style didn’t resonate. The plot had loopholes. The characters didn’t grow. There was no hook.
Other books introduced me to new words, new voices, new structures.
And slowly, without realizing it, reading obsessively shaped my writing.
I improved because I stayed open.
When you stagnate, you plateau.
When you stop studying the craft, you stop evolving.
Maybe some writers appear naturally talented.
But I believe what we’re really seeing is the result of relentless practice — learning what works and unlearning what weakens the work.
III. The Risk of Relying on Talent Alone
I’m grateful I never fully claimed myself as a gifted writer.
Writing began as an outlet. It was cathartic. Personal.
Just like in my early academic years, I worked. I studied. I disciplined myself.
Even if I once believed I was “naturally smart,” college taught me otherwise.
The first years were manageable. But my final year was taxing. I could no longer rely on stock knowledge. I had to read more. Study more. Stretch further.
And I almost couldn’t keep up.
After what I used to call my “fall from grace,” I saw clearly:
The people who excelled didn’t just rely on ability.
They worked harder than I did.
I had a friend who barely rested. During breaks, she studied. She revised. She prepared ahead.
And it paid off.
She graduated at the top of the class.
That didn’t mean I was incapable. It meant she outworked me.
That lesson humbled me.
If I could redo college, I would drop my complacency. I would discipline myself more.
Effort compounds.
In writing, believing in talent alone is dangerous.
Because beginners will look at their early drafts — the crossed-out lines, the awkward sentences, the red-ink corrections — and think:
Maybe I’m not gifted.
I remember rereading my early works and cringing so hard I could barely finish a page.
But that wasn’t proof of lack of talent.
It was proof of growth.
One of the most common misconceptions about talent is that it’s a race: someone else’s early success must mean you’re “behind.”
But writing isn’t a sprint; it’s a journey. Remember when I struggled to complete my first manuscript in Part 1? Those long, uncertain hours taught me that persistence matters far more than being immediately “good enough.”
Even if your draft looks messy (which it inevitably will, as we’ll explore in Part 4: Why Your First Draft is Messy), your dedication to writing regularly is what builds mastery.
If we insist that writing is purely talent-based, we discourage beginners before they’ve had the chance to improve.
And comparison becomes inevitable.
But writing is deeply individual.
My voice will not sound like yours.
Your genre will not mirror mine.
If you busy yourself comparing, you will end up imitating — and in imitation, you lose your own voice.
IV. Skill Is Built, Not Born
I’ve come to believe this fully:
Skill is built.
My mother raised my sisters and I with discipline. She prepared us for school. She cultivated habits that later looked like “talent.”
I was not born gifted.
I was trained.
Writing follows the same pattern.
A first draft is rarely elegant. A manuscript is not equal to the printed book.
There are layers of editing. Refining. Reworking.
The idea of the “born genius writer” is comforting — but misleading.
What beginners need is not talent.
It’s structure. Study. Patience.
I once heard someone say:
“Finishing a draft might be the easiest part. Editing is where your head will ache.”
They were right.
Fear is not the only challenge.
There are many more layers waiting beyond it.
V. Growth I had to Earn
As I’ve grown older, my writing has changed.
My vocabulary expanded.
My structure improved.
My voice matured.
When I revisit my teenage works, I cringe.
But I also smile.
Because that version of me dared to begin.
If I hadn’t started early, I wouldn’t have improved.
Stagnation unsettles me.
And growth excites me.
Practice may not create perfection — but it creates progress.
And progress is enough.
VI. You Can Outwork Insecurity
A word of advice:
You can outwork insecurity.
I did.
Be teachable.
Study the craft. Accept feedback.
Rewrite bravely.
One day, you’ll look back at your earlier drafts — and instead of embarrassment, you’ll feel gratitude.
Because they were proof that you were trying.
VII. Discipline Keeps the Flame Alive
Post-college, I licked my wounds and learned to accept what I once labeled as failure.
If I had been more consistent, perhaps the outcome would have been different.
But I know now what I didn’t know then.
And there is clarity in recognizing lessons — and choosing to grow from them.
So I’ll leave you with this:
“Talent may spark the flame, but discipline keeps it alive.”
Keep Building Your Writing Momentum
You’ve unpacked the misconception that writers are born gifted and explored how persistence, practice, and dedication shape your craft.
- If you missed it, go back to Part 1: When Did You First Call Yourself a Writer? to reflect on your earliest writing experiences and the lessons they taught you.
- Revisit Part 2: Writing Before You Feel Ready to see why starting imperfectly is often the best way to grow.
- Next, embrace the creative chaos in Part 4: Why Your First Draft is Messy (And Why That’s Perfect) — learn why first drafts are meant to be untidy.
- Explore the personal insight gained in Part 5: Writing as a Form of Self-Discovery and how writing can reveal hidden emotions and clarify thoughts.
- Step into vulnerability in Part 6: The Fear of Being Seen and understand how being visible as a writer is part of growth.
- Finally, claim your freedom to start in Part 7: Starting Without Permission — a reminder that you don’t need anyone’s approval to begin or share your work.
Return to your page. Keep showing up for your story, one imperfect draft at a time.


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